A wedding is never just about two people. More often than not, it involves many people, even more often than not, it involves many people who have had their own wedding, but have decided to relive theirs through yours. It's amazing how people can take claim to someting that is totally and wholly not theirs. Unbelieveble even more so that they make no apologies for it. Much as I welcome your FEEDBACK, the ultimate decision belongs to us, the bride and groom. Now, why is that so hard to understand.